Does anyone else hear this question from friends, relatives and sometimes people you just meet?
The polite response is to giggle, over thank them and then jokingly laugh " I just don't know!"
And in truth ..........I honestly don't know!
Don't get me wrong I have niggling habits that annoy me let alone someone else (!) and I don't look like Heidi Klum but some days when you catch yourself realising that 90% + of your friends are married (or almost) and may also have kids as well.................you can start the downward spirl of thought...!
But on the flip side, I am a nice peson, I'd like to think I'm not too offensive on the eye and consider myself a good friend amongst other good qualities. Plus I have had boyfriends before (and sometimes I worry that I peaked in my early 20s!) so I can't be that terrible!
However as much fun as dating is I am also not interested in wasting my time on people who don't deserve me.
So why am I single?.............because on a good day (like today is) I choose to be!
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Yeah, I hear that quite a lot... but you know my feelings on being single! I was in a relationship for 8 years - pretty much a third of my whole life (in fact, my entire adult life) - and now that I am single, well, I'm kinda loving it! I like the freedom. I have nights - like last night - when I wish I had someone to cuddle up to, and weddings are always a pain without a plus one - but then I think about how much I'm enjoying my space right now and I figure it's a trade off. I'm not saying I want to stay single forever, and if I met someone who took my breath away tomorrow then fine, but in the mean time... well, it's not so bad! :)
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